Here's a list of songs that just remind me of summer!
Yves LaRock - Rise Up
Sean Paul - Temperature
David Guetta - When Love Takes Over
Arash - Suddenly
Lilly Allen - Smile
Katy Perry - California Girls
Sean Paul - Get Busy
Taio Cruz - Break your Heart
those are just a few... have a great summer y'all!!
Sunday, June 26, 2011
Advice Column #3 - friendship problems!
again, this comes from my other blog that got deleted. i'll post more advice things up when more people visit.
This girl kinda used to be my friend. Then she started acting mean to me! For instance, she often ignores me for no reason. Then also sometimes she gathers with some of her friends and they laugh and whisper. I have an inkling that that is about me. Could you please PlEaSe tell me what to say to her? I'm a bit timid so I can't yell at her.
Lucy
Dear Lucy,
I'm so sorry that happened!! You may be at an age where girls just want to fit in with the popular crowd and are very insecure! I hope it stops!
Whatever you do DO NOT use the internet! (no emails, IMs, facebook messages etc) it would be a huge mistake! In middle school I sent an email to my "friend" asking her what's wrong and why she was upset, my inbox flooded with hate messages and it was terrible, so please don't do that.
Now, talk to her very straightforwadly, calmly, and honestly. Begin by saying something like "I feel like I did something wrong, are you upset about something?"or "I was kind of hurt by the whispering around me, did I do anything to upset you?" say these things in a very calm way and make it look like its all your fault (even though we know its not!) so that way she won't turn her defensive mode on and start to insult you with her other friends. Once she does though, then you should use your best judgement and defend yourself in a good way, or talk to a parent.
If those things don't work, find new friends. Talk to another girl and invite her over to your house for a movie, or just to hang out. You shouldn't feel forced to spend time with your mean friends. It may seem very difficult at first, but you'll get used to it and it will be easy.
If all else fails, talk to your mom. If she has a good relationship with the mom of your "friend" ask her to gather some info on what has been going on with her recently. Maybe its not you? What if her parents are getting divorced and she's letting it out on you?
Good luck and I hope for the best for you!!
Nev
need advice??? nevoni.smith@yahoo.com
This girl kinda used to be my friend. Then she started acting mean to me! For instance, she often ignores me for no reason. Then also sometimes she gathers with some of her friends and they laugh and whisper. I have an inkling that that is about me. Could you please PlEaSe tell me what to say to her? I'm a bit timid so I can't yell at her.
Lucy
Dear Lucy,
I'm so sorry that happened!! You may be at an age where girls just want to fit in with the popular crowd and are very insecure! I hope it stops!
Whatever you do DO NOT use the internet! (no emails, IMs, facebook messages etc) it would be a huge mistake! In middle school I sent an email to my "friend" asking her what's wrong and why she was upset, my inbox flooded with hate messages and it was terrible, so please don't do that.
Now, talk to her very straightforwadly, calmly, and honestly. Begin by saying something like "I feel like I did something wrong, are you upset about something?"or "I was kind of hurt by the whispering around me, did I do anything to upset you?" say these things in a very calm way and make it look like its all your fault (even though we know its not!) so that way she won't turn her defensive mode on and start to insult you with her other friends. Once she does though, then you should use your best judgement and defend yourself in a good way, or talk to a parent.
If those things don't work, find new friends. Talk to another girl and invite her over to your house for a movie, or just to hang out. You shouldn't feel forced to spend time with your mean friends. It may seem very difficult at first, but you'll get used to it and it will be easy.
If all else fails, talk to your mom. If she has a good relationship with the mom of your "friend" ask her to gather some info on what has been going on with her recently. Maybe its not you? What if her parents are getting divorced and she's letting it out on you?
Good luck and I hope for the best for you!!
Nev
need advice??? nevoni.smith@yahoo.com
Perf Summer Look
I pieced together an outfit perfect for summer! tell me what you think! :)
dress: forever 21: http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=dress&product%5Fid=2074202217&Page=1&pgcount=100
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dress: forever 21: http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=dress&product%5Fid=2074202217&Page=1&pgcount=100
Necklace: Forever 21: http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=acc%5Fjewelry&product%5Fid=1000019922&Page=1&pgcount=100
sandals: old navy: http://oldnavy.gap.com/browse/product.do?cid=55151&vid=1&pid=841037&scid=841037002
(For this one i can't put the pic on!)
Advice Column #2 - boy attention!
So this came from my other blog which i deleted...
i can not really get attention from boys. I'm fifteen now and have never had a boyfriend (i know its so embarrassing!) I have a bunch of guy friends but they don't seem to like like me! all of my friends have boyfriends and I'm reallllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllly jealous! Boys are so cute but they are NOT all i care about. what do you think i should do? -anonymous Dear Anon,
First you have to ask yourself why? To look good in front of others? To fit in? To actually have a romantic relationship? Figure out whether its really worth it or if you crave a boyfriend just because your friends have one. If you really want a boyfriend you could possibly (?) ask the guy out yourself. Sometimes it's the girl that asks the guy out. Also ask yourself, what makes you jealous? Is it because they have a companion like that and you don't? That they are more 'mature'? You should first ask yourself these questions before moving on.
Maybe you should take your mind off of boys and the jealousy that your friends have one and you don't. Why not meet other people and maybe invite them over to your house? Join a school club or activity outside of school? Who knows, maybe theres a boyfriend for you out there somewhere! If you're really desperate you could maybe think about your appearance a bit more. Maybe some more makeup or more clothes? I know its wrong to judge a person by his/her looks, but face it, we all do some time or another!
Don't worry that much about not having a boyfriend. I mean, I don't have one either! I bet most of the girls at your school don't have one. So don't worry!
Good luck! <3
Nevoni
need advice? nevoni.smith@yahoo.com
i can not really get attention from boys. I'm fifteen now and have never had a boyfriend (i know its so embarrassing!) I have a bunch of guy friends but they don't seem to like like me! all of my friends have boyfriends and I'm reallllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllly jealous! Boys are so cute but they are NOT all i care about. what do you think i should do? -anonymous Dear Anon,
First you have to ask yourself why? To look good in front of others? To fit in? To actually have a romantic relationship? Figure out whether its really worth it or if you crave a boyfriend just because your friends have one. If you really want a boyfriend you could possibly (?) ask the guy out yourself. Sometimes it's the girl that asks the guy out. Also ask yourself, what makes you jealous? Is it because they have a companion like that and you don't? That they are more 'mature'? You should first ask yourself these questions before moving on.
Maybe you should take your mind off of boys and the jealousy that your friends have one and you don't. Why not meet other people and maybe invite them over to your house? Join a school club or activity outside of school? Who knows, maybe theres a boyfriend for you out there somewhere! If you're really desperate you could maybe think about your appearance a bit more. Maybe some more makeup or more clothes? I know its wrong to judge a person by his/her looks, but face it, we all do some time or another!
Don't worry that much about not having a boyfriend. I mean, I don't have one either! I bet most of the girls at your school don't have one. So don't worry!
Good luck! <3
Nevoni
need advice? nevoni.smith@yahoo.com
Advice Column #1
hey everyone! this is the first advice column. if you ever need advice on any topic please write to me at: nevoni.smith@yahoo.com
Hiiii! So I was wondering if you know any youtube channels i can visit that are funny or where i can get tutorials and other things like that???
Hey! So here are some funny ones/tutorial ones.
Funny: smosh, nigahiga, BrittaniLouiseTaylor, bubbiosity, barelypolitical, davedays, HappySlip, IanH, ijustine, kevjumba, KassemG, olgakay, shanedawsontv, theOnion, wongfuproductions.
Tutorials: jlovesmac, juicystar07, allthatglitters21, beautyxxgoddess, meganheartsmakeup.
enjoy!!!
Hiiii! So I was wondering if you know any youtube channels i can visit that are funny or where i can get tutorials and other things like that???
Hey! So here are some funny ones/tutorial ones.
Funny: smosh, nigahiga, BrittaniLouiseTaylor, bubbiosity, barelypolitical, davedays, HappySlip, IanH, ijustine, kevjumba, KassemG, olgakay, shanedawsontv, theOnion, wongfuproductions.
Tutorials: jlovesmac, juicystar07, allthatglitters21, beautyxxgoddess, meganheartsmakeup.
enjoy!!!
What would you title this pic?
CONTEST: What title would you give this picture? Comment below and the best answer gets a shout-out and i'll make a digital art picture for them!!
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idk, i might title it "Aphrodite" or something... what do you think?
summer
Ah yes its the season again.... the time when you go to bed at 2am and wake up late in the afternoon....those endless hot days where you sit around at the pool.....a time when life is like putty in your hands....summer.
My (hopefully!!) plans for the summer include:
*Surviving my cousin's wedding. :P Polish weddings are HORRIBLE because i heard that everyone ends up drunk and i find that very disgusting.
*Going to Ukraine to teach English. ok this is kinda iffy now. in comparison to my other summers, this wouldn't be too strange or weird. For the past few summers i have been travelling with the priest and my mom and sibs to countries like the Czech Republic, Germany and Switzerland. dont get me wrong, i am INCREDIBLY grateful i get to travel to those places. BUTif you have to travel with a catholic priest who never had a family and gets very frustrated with kids, then things can get kinda bad. NEWAY we would travel on a train to Ukraine (that rhymes!!) and stay at a nunnery (a place where nuns stay) (my mom's friend is a nun) and we would teach there.
*travel to either England, Germany + Austria, or Albania+Macedonia on one of those bus trips we always go to during the summer.
so ya... this sould be very interesting.....
hope everyone has a SPLENDID vacation and write a comment below telling me what you're doing.
toodles!! <3
My (hopefully!!) plans for the summer include:
*Surviving my cousin's wedding. :P Polish weddings are HORRIBLE because i heard that everyone ends up drunk and i find that very disgusting.
*Going to Ukraine to teach English. ok this is kinda iffy now. in comparison to my other summers, this wouldn't be too strange or weird. For the past few summers i have been travelling with the priest and my mom and sibs to countries like the Czech Republic, Germany and Switzerland. dont get me wrong, i am INCREDIBLY grateful i get to travel to those places. BUTif you have to travel with a catholic priest who never had a family and gets very frustrated with kids, then things can get kinda bad. NEWAY we would travel on a train to Ukraine (that rhymes!!) and stay at a nunnery (a place where nuns stay) (my mom's friend is a nun) and we would teach there.
*travel to either England, Germany + Austria, or Albania+Macedonia on one of those bus trips we always go to during the summer.
so ya... this sould be very interesting.....
hope everyone has a SPLENDID vacation and write a comment below telling me what you're doing.
toodles!! <3
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